It is, actually, though the matriarchal aspects are unexpected. [Though to be fair, his best friend is a princess and the bossiest person he's ever met, and he'd fall obediently into line so fast that everyone would think he was used to this if she were here.]

Charming young men, like myself, don't have much of an advantage here, regardless of whether or not we know how to maneuver in the landscape.

[This is the guy teaching Rey.]